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A calm nursery in cream and natural wood: a changing table, a hanging macrame, a woven basket and potted plants
We're keeping the surprise

Andrew & Anitha are expecting a little one

We're not finding out until the day, so everything here is neutral and sized 3 to 6 months. Reserve whatever you would like to bring and it disappears from the list for everyone else, so nobody buys the same thing twice.

Anonymous — no sign-up
Takes about ten seconds
Neutral colours, 3–6 months
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Saturday, 31 October 2026

Are you coming?

Let us know so we can count you in.

How it works

Three steps, then you're done

No account to make, no password to remember. Reserve it here, bring it on the day.


1

Find something you'd love to give

Search the list or filter by what you're after. Anything with a shop link takes you straight to the exact one we're hoping for.

2

Tap “Reserve”

No name needed — it's completely anonymous. The gift is marked as taken for every other guest straight away, so nobody buys it twice.

3

Bring it on the day

That's it. Plans change, so if you need to release a gift you can do it from this same page on the same phone, whenever you like.

From the two of us
  • It's a surprise — we don't know either.
  • 3 to 6 months, in neutral colours.
  • A guide, not a limit — anything else is welcome too.
  • Reserving is anonymous. Nobody sees who chose what.
  • Just come. Your presence is the gift.

Andrew & Anitha

The gift list

Reserve a gift

Tap “Reserve” on anything you'd like to bring. Anything greyed out has already been taken care of — the list updates live as other guests choose.


This list is a guide, not a limit. If you've seen something else you'd love to bring, please do — it doesn't have to come from here.

Updates live

The day itself

Where and when


Date
To be confirmed
Venue
To be confirmed
Questions

Things people usually ask


Are you having a boy or a girl?
We're keeping that a surprise — and before you ask, we genuinely don't know either. That's why everything on the list is neutral and sized 3 to 6 months: it all works whoever turns up.
Can I bring something that isn't on the list?
Of course. The list is here to stop duplicates, not to set rules. If you've seen something you love for the baby, bring it — neutral colours if it's clothing, please.
Can two of us go in on one gift together?
Of course. One of you reserves it, and you bring it together on the day.
I reserved something and my plans changed. What now?
Open this page on the same phone you used, and the gift you reserved will show a "Release This Gift" button on its card. One tap puts it back on the list for someone else. On a different phone? You can WhatsApp us which gift it was and we'll release it for you — only if you don't mind us knowing, of course.
Do I have to buy the exact one you linked?
Only where the card names a brand, like the Tommee Tippee bottles. Everywhere else the link is just a suggestion, and any version is very welcome.
Will anyone see what I chose?
No — reserving is completely anonymous. The list records that a gift is taken and nothing else. Not even Andrew & Anitha can see who chose what.
Can I give money instead?
Please don't feel you have to give anything at all. If you'd prefer to, send us a WhatsApp and we'll sort it out with you directly.
A nursery wall in neutral tones with a macrame hanging, a soft terracotta star cushion and a brass mirror

Found something you'd love to give?

Reserve it now and it's yours to bring. It takes about ten seconds, and nobody sees who chose what.